What is the most important thing to look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

[robofighter]

i like smarts really. i used too like a scence of humor ( you know scence i'm such a funny guy) but then i had girlfriends who didn't take anything seriously. plus i hate ditzy girls, i would like a girl who could keep up a conversation (and not 'bout her!)

[Drigger]

I already like a girl who is smart and pretty, and i love her completely (if only she would love me back)

[akuma=unmei]

well if i was gonna date a guy, i would look for a guy whose world doesn't revolve around wut other ppl think. it's so stupid that ppl actually care that some person said they were "uncool".

[DarkPrinceBman]

Well For a guy I want him to be feminin and alittle shy.... plus he needs a...forget it.
and he must sensative i want someone willing to talk to me about how i am, tell me things are going to be alright and would cry with me
and for a girl = CANDACE she is everything I could ever want, she can be sultry and sweet all at once and she is always there for me.

[*Lumiere*]

O.o..hmm...Also trust? forget looks...trust. And passion!! wait no...must focus on the posotive stuff. Ahem. Yes personality. But they must aslo be sound of mind. And preferable not on any drugs. Smoking is bad kids.

[Karel]

As a guy

I'm fairly humorous, as long as you have a frown I'll be slighty more humorous.

Been working a large portion of my life, my body takes alot more pain then the average.

I don't care about my looks, at the same time there's no Person in this world I rather want to be other than myself. I accept myself the way I am.

Story behind me, not many can live to tell. Avoided everything from joining gangs, selling drugs, becoming a criminal, committing crimes and other lovely in life experiences.

Naturally, I'm a good cook, like helping people... Ugh I have this weak spot of kindness that doesn't allow me to walk away when some one needs help and also prohibits me from hitting some one no matter how much I wanted. Only times I've actually had to hit some one was protecting another person from being harmed.

Accent, Español.. Yes you crazy Americanos.. tis is a small world eh? Were los Latinos run Ramped.

I don't know why, but I'm always willing to take some pain to do something righteous. When in doubt I shouldn't really care, though I much rather die doing something for some one other than myself.

What do I fear? not death, not scary things.. nothing can be more scary than being rejected.. turned away, abandoned, doing impossible things on your own. I am use it as much as I am scared.

And finally, what I'd like from another person. I don't care if they are nothing like me.. or don't share all this ubber qualities "no one's better than the next", I like people who are themselves, tell good from bad, have common sense not to do idiotic/chaotic/evil/unpleasant things. That's why I'm very picky choosing friends, I may not have many but those I have I can surely trust with my life, and as a friend I will be there for you even after everyone else has run out the door.

[-Naota-]

i say sense of humor i hate boring ppl but looks are important too im not goonna go date some girl who looks like a man and has horrible personal hygene...so i think everyone will agree that no matter what looks will kinda always depend on who your dating.

[sazico234]

sence of humor and got to be tlkative

[tears_of_chaos]

sense of humour and personality!

brandon dicamillo will one day be mine!!!(maniac laugh)

[-Naota-]

iguess i would also think personality would fall into all the catgoryies except looks bucause isnt being funny part of your pesonality?

[Panda_lada]

Personality and sense of humor

[I'm Ol' Gregg]

Like.... someone who's not really ugly but not really beautiful because then i'd be like: why are you going out with me?? ^_^!! But basically someone who is cool looking and has a nice personality!!!!!

[*Lumiere*]

Today 01:01 PMPeachFFX_GoddesLike.... someone who's not really ugly but not really beautiful because then i'd be like: why are you going out with me?? ^_^!! But basically someone who is cool looking and has a nice personality!!!!!

Uhh...So your saying looks matter? >_>....??

[I'm Ol' Gregg]

Looks do matter I suppose. But then again I'd rather have a boyfriend who is nice and I get on with rather than someone who has nothing good to say... but I'd like to have both ^.^!!!

No, I'm kidding, looks aren't really important but ofcourse I wouldn't mind having a good looking boyfriend!!

[shi_amai]

It's not so crazy. I hate the guys at the middle school who go gaga over the hot girls at the high school, and say they want to go out with her, but the girls turning out to be total [removed]. And how a really sweet girl tells them they like a guy, and he's like eww, you're fsking ugly, leave me alone, I hate you, but they never even got to know the girl (I've heard and seen this happen before). People ask me all the time why I'm going out with my boyfriend (because according to them he's ugly, personal I think he has a unique cuteness to him). This world is feeding off of looks, and it's stupid.

well if i was gonna date a guy, i would look for a guy whose world doesn't revolve around wut other ppl think. it's so stupid that ppl actually care that some person said they were "uncool".

And I agree completely with this. Usually people who care about that are jerks, and unconfident.

[Scion]

Thats not enterly true Shi. I am in Middle School and i do not go for the hot girls. I go for the sweet and nice girls. Those guys in your school must be pretty fudged up then.

[-akichan-]

i would also say if i would choose a guy, i would choose the one that i can realli trust, never use something like temptations. Doesnt matter white or yellow, i just like pplz whos loyal, nice, and care about me. Theres no colours, no questioning, no suspects, its unconditioning.

[Limitus]

In my opinion, personality is the most improtant thing, mentioned in your list!

Then there sense of humour, look and the last one, I can't remember...

[pyro_penguin]

for me its smarts( i dont want a really dumb girl but not a girl devoted to studying), character( i want the girl to be her own person and stand out and stand up for herself, not to please others), and loyalty (does she really feel that way or does she just agree to avoid hurting you), and strong personalaty ( a girl that listens but talks just as much) ( and somone that can talk without getting too toung tied, they shouldnt feel like they cant ever make a mistake) ( and they need to have that spark to get the blze going, they have to have that attraction above all the other things i have put). as for me i have never hit anyone expt for protection of three people, my current girlfriend, my best friend ( i didnt know her at the time, and yes it is a her but no i am not cheating on my girlfriend), and myself. other than that i run. not because i'm a wimp but because i dont engage in pointless combat. but i have a killer concionce, i cant stand to see people picked on! most of the time i can break it up peacefully but those three times the person was'nt being reasonable.

[~World of Elegance~]

I would like a guy with a good sense of humor i like to laugh,and just chill. if he looks really hot than its a plus,but i could care less what he looks like and i could care less what other ppl may think of him or me.

[Sexy Angel]

for me, i think it would be one's personality because it's the person's identity~

[Death_Lord]

The order of preference for me would be.............personality, looks and then sense of humour and intelligence

[sparkiest fox]

[B]I look for a good personality and looks

[[BlackDeath]]

I don't see "Willing to do whatever I want" on that list.

Lolz, could get used to that!

Personality is the main thing
Sense of humour is also good
You need someone to share interests in, someone you're comfortable with.

[jedi sentinel]

go sense of humor......personality is like saying all thee above exculeding looks...........i cant date a chick that doesnt want to have fun or luagh.....